Sunday, October 14, 2018

NewCelebrations NewsLetter 2018-4

Thank you for reading this modest newsletter.
My intention is to periodically send you some articles, links, and resources that you may find stimulating and suggestive --
articles that promote more simple, more faithful, more perceptive celebrations for the holidays and events we and our culture deem appropriate.

This is the time to plan for a congregational event to enable your members to explore new ways to celebrate Christmas this year.
It is not too late.

This edition of New Celebrations Newsletter explores the benefits of holding an Alternative Gift Market for your church and community.  Read through some of the suggestions, check out some of the resources, and use these words to stimulate your thinking about what you can do in your situation.

Perhaps some of these suggestions will prod your thinking.
You are urged to explore some of the resources in this edition of NewCelebrations Newsletter.  My wish is that, this year, you and your church will have the most meaningful Christmas celebration ever: that many will come to see, to know, and to celebrate Emmanuel in their lives as never before.

I would hope that you feel free to copy some of these resources
and circulate them among your church friends and other
acquaintances.


Clyde Griffith

On the world wide web at www.LiveAbundantly.com
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Consider Hosting an Alternative Gift Market

An increasingly popular idea that is being done at hundreds of churches throughout the USA is the hosting of an Alternative Gift Market.  Typically, the market is hosted by a local church -- or group of churches -- and involves local, national and international mission and relief agencies.

The traditional Market takes place in a special location, like a church patio, fellowship hall, or a neighborhood community center. Colorful booths are set up representing the various
Alternative Gift projects. Gifts are purchased by persons attracted to the Market for projects in the U.S. and developing countries that are working to save lives and preserve our planet.







An Alternative Gift Market is a different kind of shopping experience. Gifts are purchased in honor of family members and friends in a market setting. Instead of buying a box of candy for Aunt Mary, a shopper at this market might purchase health care for children in Kenya or purchase a solar powered computer for a classroom in the Dominican Republic. Then Aunt Mary gets an attractive card telling her about the life giving present given in her honor.
 

An alternative to the Tradional Market is an Online Market whereby a church can pick a project to fund and set up an online campaign. The church then promotes an online link to their Alternative Gift Online Campaign.  Check it out.



Alternative Gifts International helps you think through the process and offers a bevy of materials to  help you.
   
Check out their web site:  https://alternativegifts.org/ 


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Alternative Christmas Community Festival

An Alternative Christmas Community Festival is a concrete, exciting way to offer ideas and support for those who want to have more meaningful Christmas celebrations. It is also a positive way to introduce the need for change to people unaware of the problems connected with the way we celebrate Christmas.

Many churches organize alternative Christmas events in the fall to encourage alternative giving and to help members simplify their celebration. The four basic plans are:

1. Sell crafts and clothing from the Third World.
This encourages Fair Trade and the second pillar of Voluntary Simplicity: Learn from the World Community.
Family and friends get beautiful gifts at reasonable prices.
Third World artisans get a better price for their work through these volunteer fairs and shops than through similar commercial importers.

2. Encourage people to give funds to worthwhile organizations in someone else's name instead of a purchased gift.
The gift is doubled - for the recipient of the funds and the recipient of the honor. Usually a gift card goes to the honoree telling something about the recipient organization.

3. Hold a workshop on alternative ways of celebrating Christmas.
Such a workshop goes beyond gifts, to the "why's" and "how's" of celebrating Christmas. Use the classic "Unplug the Christmas Machine: A Complete Guide to Putting Love and Joy Back into the Season" ($10) and "Leader's Guide to 'Unplug the Christmas Machine' Workshop".  The Leader's Guide is available as a free download here.
4. Set up an alternative gift site on your web page and promote it to church members and friends. 
Several alternative programs have made this easier.  Check out my favorites:
Presbyterian Gift Catalog https://presbyteriangifts.org/
Heifer Project International https://www.heifer.org/
Koinonia Farm Store  https://koinoniafarmstore.com/
SERRV International  https://www.serrv.org/
Ten Thousand Villages   https://www.tenthousandvillages.com

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Featured Book Review
Simplify Your Christmas: 100 Ways to Reduce the Stress and Recapture the Joy of

the Holidays
By Elaine St.James

Simplify Your Christmas was published in 1999, but is still available at amazon for basically the cost of postage.  In it Elaine St. James shares-in brief, easy-to-read essays-a variety of tips that will help readers deal with the seasonal overload. For example, Just Say No to Elmo, Eliminate Turkey Torpor, and Slay the Secret Santa.

A reader from Ohio writes:
"This book is chock-full of great tips for reducing the stress we all feel at holiday time.
How much should we spend on our tree?
Did I get the kids enough presents?
What do I get for Aunt Sue THIS year?
How can I get out of the office party without riling the boss?"               

One of my favorite section begins on Page 29 with "Take a Poll". Here, you're encouraged to ask your family members how they really feel about your holiday traditions. What traditions do they like enough to keep doing? Which are painful, boring or ridiculous enough to dump?

Another home run is found on page 87: Rethink your Christmas Card Tradition. St. James gives good advice on how to give your holiday mailing list (why not apply this advice to your Christmas gift list, too?) a liposuction treatment. And, all without guilt!

This book is intelligent and certainly seems to have a wide audience. Frankly, anyone with financial concerns (do you still want to be paying Christmas credit card bills next July?), time
restraints (wouldn't you rather spend the time taking your kids to the movies?) or emotional issues (if the hoidays are supposed to be peaceful, gracious and dignified, then why am I so
depressed?) should find St. James' advice helpful. Try just 10 of her tips and your life this December will improve.

I liked this book so much that I'm going to give IT for Christmas!

For more information, and/or to purchase this book, click here:

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Invitation to Share

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, pass New Celebrations on.
New Celebrations is meant to be a clearing house, a resource, of practical information folks can use.  The idea is that we could all use some help in overcoming the mass-merchandising influences of how we celebrate the holidays and events in our lives.
New Celebrations Newsletter is intended to be shareware.
As Arlo Guthrie pines: When one person does something, it is pretty much ignored.  

When two people join in doing something, people raise their eyebrows.  
When three people get together to do something, it becomes a movement...
Our celebrations CAN be more faith-full and less stress-full.
Help spread the word.  Forward this message to everyone you can think of.

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Saturday, October 6, 2018

NewCelebrations NewsLetter 2018-3



New Celebrations:
Alternative Resources for Discovering and Celebrating Emmanuel
Throughout the Year #3



Welcome to New Celebrations Newsletter 2018-3!

Thank you for reading this modest newsletter.
My intention is to periodically send you some articles, links, and resources that you may find stimulating and suggestive -- articles that promote more simple, more faithful, more perceptive celebrations for the holidays and events we and our culture deem appropriate.

In his book Hundred Dollar Holiday and in his workshops, Bill McKibben reminds us: 

"The reason to change Christmas -- the reason it might be  useful to change Christmas -- is because it might help us  to get at some of the underlying discontent in our lives.
Because it might help us see how to change every other  day of the year, in ways that really would make our whole  lives, and maybe our entire 365-days-a-year culture,  healthier in the long run....

If there's one way in which the world has changed more than any other since 1840,...it's that we've become such devout consumers. That consumption carries with it  certain blessings... and certain costs...
 

 [T]he greatest cost may be the way it's changed us, the  way it has managed to confuse us about what we really  want from the world.We weren't built just for this life we find ourselves  leading - we were built for silence and solitude, built  for connection with each other and the natural world,  built for so much more than we now settle for. Christmas is the moment to sense that, the moment to reach for the real joys.”

Perhaps some of these suggestions will prod your thinking.
You are urged to explore some of the resources in this edition of NewCelebrations Newsletter.  My wish is that, this year, you and your church will have the most meaningful Christmas celebration ever: that many will come to see, to know, and to celebrate
Emmanuel in their lives as never before.

I would hope that you feel free to copy some of these resources and circulate them among your church friends and other acquaintances. 

Clyde Griffith

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 Christmas Planning Workshop


Good for an early fall event to explore the church's role in celebrating Christmas.
Jo Robinson and Jean Coppock Staeheli suggest the following format:

 1.  List the church's traditional Christmas activities and consider these questions:
      Who is responsible for planning and carrying each one out?
      Who is each of the programs designed to benefit?
      Which work well?

 2.  What should the church's goals be at Christmas?
      Take some time to dream about creative ways the church could be a more
        positive force in restoring the meaning of the celebration.
      How well do your current holiday activities further your goals?

 3.  Formulate specific ways to reach these goals.
     You may wish to take these questions into consideration:
      How can the work involved in these activities be redistributed to relieve
        hardworking church members and include new, lonely, or single people?
      How can ongoing church responsibilitiesbe reduced so that church leaders
        can spend more time with their families?
      How can church sermons and education classes reinforce the ideas
        generated in this planning session?
 
(From Unplug the Christmas Machine: A Complete Guide to Putting Love & Joy Back Into the Season -- explore this idea and many others in the book.)
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 New Christmas Celebrations

Here are just a few of the ideas presented in Unplug the Christmas Machine that churches around the United States have come up with to make their church programming more consistent with the spiritual meaning of Christmas:


    Make Large Poster of Christmas Pledge. Encourage members to sign.
    Decorate Tree.
        Begin the season with an undecorated tree.
        Each family that does an act that expresses the Christmas spirit is
        entitled to bring an ornament to put on the tree.
    Christmas Past.
        Have children interview grandparents for stories of Christmas long ago.
        Print the stories in special church newsletter.
    Father-Children Gift Wrapping Session.
        Ask all the fathers and their children to bring family presents and wrapping
        paper to a special gathering.
    Change Gift Giving Day.
        Encourage the exchange of gifts on St. Nicholas's Day, December 6,
        rather than Christmas Eve or Christmas Day, to save the true holiday for
        religious expression.
    Cut Christmas Expenditures by 10%.
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